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I must say for me this was hard.  I guess in all honesty, I felt the people would keep their own boundaries as I keep mine. I learned the hard way that this is definitely not true. People often have no boundaries of their own or simply don't care about stepping and destroying yours. I …

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It's a brand new year with amazing possibilities and endless ways to reach them. The New Year makes you anticipatory of closing things out that you feel didn't go right in the previous year. It's just an excitement of a new beginning to your goals and what you want out of your life. This just …

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This is the hardest time of the year for many. Why you ask? Well some have grief of loved ones they miss. Some go to deal with families that treat them badly. Some have to deal with heavy trauma within their family that stays silent. Some are simply alone. We think that people who are …

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How long you going to cry about you? How long is it going to be everyone else's fault but your own? When are you going to take ownership of you? How much more can someone else do for you that you need to be doing yourself. There are only so many classes you can take. …

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Often times we are caught up with master manipulators in our lives. We constantly post about choosing Us, Ourselves, Me Against the World. Anything we can tell ourselves so that we don't face the reality of being a door mat, pushover, being manipulated and often this is by people we love. It happens in all …

Do you really choose you? Read More »

I remember when I had the continual Resting Bitch Face I actually liked it. It kept me from wrinkles and I didn't have to ever show emotions about anything. It was great.  At least I thought it was. Especially in the time frame and mindset that I was in. Then the 40 something year old …

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The hardest thing that you will ever have to do is be you. Society beats us down to be less than who we are so that we will be malleable, easily disciplined, focused on senseless rules and regulations vs our dreams. This way we stay average never becoming amazing people. Yes it should be the …

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This week I gave license to a hater. A person that doesn't even talk to me yet had the nerve to be critical of my work. I didn't really have the time or energy to waste on it as I had many positive things going on. In my heart, I kept saying why give license …

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As I sit in the hotel room on my mini vacay getaway. A lot of things led up to it. My business was almost in shambles due to a disgruntled business person I was connected with. I wasn't going to go feeling like I had to focus on taking care of all the issues connected …

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I felt super stressed. Everything was changing but I wasn't seeing the money or the kudos, I was truly feeling some type of way.  I had done what all the experts had told me to do minus a few things I had procrastinated on.. I wasn't harboring friendships I was simply on my own ship …

What does God have waiting for you??? Read More »